My bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago, and he left to visit his family out of the country today for 2 more weeks.
When I spoke with him today, he said that he has to clear his head and figure out whether or not he wants to be in a relationship with me again.
My heart hurts so much, and I count down the minutes until he returns. For the women who have experienced this: please help me. I’m in so much pain, and don’t know how to stop thinking about him.
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You cannot stop the pain if you still love him. It only stops when you get a confirmed answer with both of you sitting down and talk over it in a calm manner. If it's helpless, you pain stops with the help of time. As time goes by, you'll forget him. If it's ok, then find out why this happened in the first place and take precaution to avoid if from happening again in future.
But love is a two way thing meaning that both of you have to play your role to make it work and last.
I know it sounds impossible, but you've got to find a way to turn your emotions off toward him. Don't be too desperate, it sounds like you're lusting over what you used to have with him. Take it easy, don't push too hard.
A break means you're history. So don't wait around, because he's not coming back. So you might as well find someone else. He has.
dude he's not taking a breat. he BROKE UP WITH YOU.
get over it and find new love
He's done with you.
I am assuming that when you "spoke with him today"….it was you that contacted him. My advice to you would be to leave him a lone and respect the fact that he wants time away from you. If you really care about him than you would allow him the time he requires. Respect yourself as well and don't sulk over any man. There are many and who the hell wants a man that can't figure out whether he wants a relationship with you again….basically he is dating someone else in the mean time and if things don't work out with her, he wants you as a back-up.
He isn't worth you being in so much pain. Your heart deserves to be with someone that will keep it safe. Paint the town red and go on the hunt. You'll find that special someone and this guy will just be a bad memory.